HIV/AIDS LONG-TERM SURVIVOR * YOUTH EDUCATION * ADVOCACY * ACTIVISM * RESOURCES
HIV/AIDS Advocacy in Houston, Texas | Bob Bowers aka “One Tough Pirate” – Long-Term Survivor, National HIV Speaker, Advocate, and AIDS Activist
1. Public Speaking & Education
Bob is a nationally recognized HIV-positive speaker known for his unapologetic approach to educating the public.
2. Founder of HIVictorious, Inc.
In 2005, Bob founded HIVictorious, Inc., a grassroots nonprofit committed to education, prevention, and humanizing the face of HIV.
Though the nonprofit has since closed, the HIVictorious message lives on through Bob’s continued solo work and storytelling.
3. Fighting Stigma & Discrimination
Bob’s superpower? Owning his truth—and using it to shatter stigma.
4. Media & Documentary Work
Bob’s voice has echoed far beyond classrooms and stages.
The Legacy
Bob Bowers is living proof that a diagnosis doesn’t define you—what you do with it does. His journey is one of survival, resilience, and service. Through every mic, ride, classroom, and post, he continues to light the way for others:
🗣️ To speak their truth.
🧠 To stay educated.
❤️ To choose compassion over fear.
He doesn’t do it for fame. He does it because this is a fight, and he’s still in it—Pirate flag raised high.
It’s Not Who You Are, It’s What You Do That Puts You at Risk for HIV
I first started using this phrase in 2004, when I began speaking full-time in schools in Madison, Wisconsin. I can still remember scribbling it out with a pencil one night. Maybe I’d picked it up through the grapevine over the years — activism has a way of spreading ideas — but I know this: from the moment I said it out loud, it became part of my DNA.
As a heterosexual man living with HIV, I needed a way to break the heavy stigma and shatter the myth that HIV was a “gay disease.” This phrase was my answer. Simple, direct, and true: It’s not who you are, it’s what you do that puts you at risk for HIV.
When I first started speaking in schools, I learned fast that blunt honesty worked better than any lecture. I’d kick things off with:
“Sit down and get ready, y’all. This isn’t gonna be your Grandma’s presentation on HIV/AIDS.”
These kids didn’t need sugarcoating; they needed the truth laid bare. And the staff loved that about me too. They appreciated that I wasn’t there to play it safe — I was there to reach hearts and minds.
Undetectable = Untransmittable scientific consensus, which means a person living with HIV who is on antiretroviral treatment (ART) and has a sustained undetectable viral load cannot transmit the virus to sexual partners. This groundbreaking message, championed by organizations like the Prevention Access Campaign, is a critical tool for preventing new HIV transmissions, reducing stigma, and empowering people living with HIV.
U=U is a form of Treatment as Prevention (TasP), a highly effective biomedical approach to preventing HIV.
Local organizations, such as Pride Community Center and Allies in Hope | Houston, support and promote U=U initiatives in Texas.
The Department of State Health Services (DSHS) HIV/STD Program has the duty to identify, report, prevent, and control HIV, AIDS, and STDs in the State of Texas.
Many organizations in Texas provide HIV and STD services including medical care, treatment, and support.
Aging with HIV isn’t something many of us thought we’d live to see. In the early days, survival past five years was a miracle—let alone four decades. But here I stand, gray hair and all, living proof that life doesn’t end with a diagnosis. It evolves. The fight changes as the body changes, but the mission remains the same: to show the world that long-term HIV survivors can age, thrive, and carry wisdom forward.
For me, thriving means more than just living longer with HIV—it means smashing stereotypes about what growing older with HIV looks like. It’s about choosing resilience, about taking care of the body, mind, and spirit, and about letting gratitude shine through every smile and scar. I’m blessed to still be here, and I wear that blessing with pride. Thriving with HIV/AIDS isn’t just possible—it’s powerful.
That’s why HIV and aging awareness is so important. The more we share our stories, the more we remind the world that people living with HIV are not only surviving, we’re aging, we’re thriving, and we’re refusing to be written off.
The Laws do not Reflect the Science: HIV Criminalization laws began in Washington State, Florida, and Tennessee in 1986 when not much was known about HIV and AIDS and the fear and hysteria about the virus was at its peak due to the lack of knowledge about it. They were created by Ryan White Comprehensive AIDS Resource Emergency Act of 1990. The act offered federal funds to states if they criminalized the act of spreading HIV and many states complied and created HIV Criminalization laws to obtain federal funding for their HIV and AIDS programs. Many of these laws are still on the books for many states and reflect the fear and lack of knowledge that the world possessed about HIV at the time.
Language regarding HIV can either empower or stigmatize a person living with HIV. Although a term may be correct or clinically accurate, it can also negatively impact a person's self-worth and confidence. Over the years, there have been growing concerns with the stigma attached to these terms. It is important to use preferred language in order empower people living with HIV and reduce stigma around HIV.
The provided guide was created for and by People Living with HIV in order to address stigma related to HIV/AIDS.
On ’Couples Therapy,’ Bob Bowers advises Evel Dick Donato that sex and romance don’t have to end because you test HIV positive.
Youth HIV/AIDS educator Bob Bowers sharing his experiences and knowledge as a long-term survivor at North Bend High School in North Bend, Oregon.
Trailer for the documentary, The Fire Within
Featuring Bob Bowers HIV/AIDS long-term survivor of 42 years.
HIV stands for human immunodeficiency virus, the virus that causes AIDS (acquired immune deficiency syndrome). STDs are sexually transmitted diseases, which include HIV and other infections like chlamydia, gonorrhea, herpes, syphilis, and HPV.|
HIV and other STDs are often contracted through sexual contact (vaginal, anal, or oral sex). Many infections are also passed through sharing needles, contact with infected blood, or from mother to baby during pregnancy or birth. HIV and other STDs are not passed casually through things like hugging or shaking hands. Each infection is different.
Youth HIV/AIDS educator Bob Bowers with La Follette High School students after delivering his message of compassion, knowledge, and real-life HIV prevention.
Bob Bowers—HIV/AIDS activist, speaker, and author—shares his raw, unfiltered life story in The True Tale of One Tough Pirate, a journey of survival, purpose, and truth.
Long-term HIV/AIDS survivor Bob Bowers continues breaking stigma and redefining aging with HIV—42+ years strong and still raising hell with heart.
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